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Mei Qian =) 28th Feb 1990
Wednesday, May 6, 2009

I think when in a relationship, it is best not to think whether your opposite is good enough for you. No, don't ever think about that, it is going to be very unfair for both of you. Is he good enough for me? Am I good enough for him? It is going to make your relationship so miserable. Don't bother and doubt your feelings towards the opposite even if your family or friends say that he/she is not good enough for you. What do they know? They do not really know your opposite, hence they are not in a very fair position to give such a comment. And even if they are fit to, you yourself know your opposite the best and should trust them and not just listen to what others have to say about it. It is your own relationship, not their's... Besides, it is hard to say whether one is good enough for another. Good enough? What do they mean by good enough? They have a higher education qualification? Better income? Better family background? By the end of the day, you have to judge it yourself... And dun ever regret the choice that you have made... Else it is going to be really very unfair for both of you...